A little Worried

[Ashford]

Ok am 15 years old and I found a lump on the bottom of my right teste. I noticed that its not doing anything not changing in size. However when I masterbate or have sex( I have sex all the time). The lump goes away, and i cant fell it anymore, however in like an hour or 2 after having sex I have a pain in my right testicle. Is this testicular cancer. am really worried? I am also embarresed on to tell my parents. Can you guys give me some ways on how to start a conversation with my parents about me having the lump on my teste?

[Scott]

Ashford, I'd start with the last paragraph in this post. It doesn't need to be a big event -- just blurt it out.

[Ashford]

what do u mean please help me.

[Scott]

I'll copy and paste the paragraph I linked to here.

Asking your parents to make an appointment does not have to be a big dramatic announcement. Often we suggest that you go to whichever parent you are more comfortable talking to and mention that you have been learning about testicular cancer and how important it is to do monthly self-exams and go to the doctor promptly if anything doesn't feel "quite right". Tell your mom or dad you have been doing the exams, and something doesn't feel quite right, and even though it may be nothing to worry about, you really need to have a doctor check it out to make sure. We can almost guarantee your parent will be concerned and supportive and make the appointment for you. It will take a big load off your mind if it turns out to be nothing, and even if it turns out to be something, you will be able to do something about it besides worry. There is always a way to get the message across (one guy who posted here wrote his mom a note because it seemed easiest!). If you still need help, ask us, and we'll do our best to help you.