what should I do

[suavejvg]

Hi my name is John and I am 13. About 1-2 months ago I noticed a small bump (about 1/3 the size of a pea) on my right testicle. But the wierd thing sometimes I can find it and sometimes I can't. What I fear most is telling my parents or getting an irection when the doctor checks me. Please help me.

[Scott]

Hi, John. Although it's probably something other than cancer, you need to tell a parent and get it checked out. Don't worry about having an erection during the examination. It probably won't happen, and if it does, the doctor couldn't care less.

[suavejvg]

but wat should I say? Hey dad theres a bump on my right testicle

[Scott]

Sure, that works. If you haven't already, be sure to read this post for more advice.

[Ryan]

Hi John, I was worried about those things happening too. But one day I just went out and told my mom about it. The next day, the doctor examined my "equipment" no reaction there No worries buddy

[Russell's Mom]

from a mom

Hi John,
I'm a mom!! My son has had testicular cancer.
Although my son has grown to be a very strong and independent young man, there is nothing more important to me than being there for him when he has concerns or questions. Support and respect for your privacy can both be accomplished. If moments get difficult, share your need and the fact that you are uncomfortable. Most of all, you will feel best getting answers to any questions that you have. Good luck, you are on the right track!! Russell's Mom, Sharon

[helpme293]

i would just like to say i have had to goto my parrents for this kind of thing a few times, i have had a torrsion a year ago and again went to the er last night because somthing didnt feel right. Im 16 and dont worry because they will completly take you seriously. i preferd my dad when talking but i guess what ever your comfortable with.