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    hey every one me and my g/f is getting married at the end of may is there and thing i need to know any hints yall can give me

  • #2
    Learn to say "yes dear" like you mean it.
    Son Jason diagnosed 4/30/04, stage III. Right I/O 4/30/04. Graduated College 5/13/04. 4XEP 6/7/04 - 8/13/04. Full open RPLND 10/13/04. All Clear since.

    Treated by Dr. Rakowski of Midland Park, NJ. Visited Sloan Kettering for protocol advice. RPLND done at Sloan Kettering.

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    • #3
      learn to say "I'm sorry" even when you aren't


      really though......just don't take the relationship for granted, random acts of kindness,(flowers at work for no reason, etc), random compliments and lots of good sexytime !

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Pete
        [...] random acts of kindness (flowers at work for no reason, etc), random compliments and lots of good sexytime !
        So true... the random acts of kindness are huge.

        Also, if she gets pissed off at something you do, don't let it fester. Fix it. She'll appreciate you being proactive.
        "Life moves pretty fast; if you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
        11.22.06 -Dx the day before Thanksgiving
        12.09.06 -Rt I/O; 100% seminoma, multifocal; Stage I-A; Surveillance; Six years out! I consider myself cured.

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        • #5
          i might have to wright all this down

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          • #6
            OK time for a girl to step in, actually all the above is true. When in May? It will be 8 years for my hubby and me, May 27th.
            What I still love about my husband is that after all this time, and 4 kids later, which it makes it a little more difficult, but just a "I love you" or he still opens the car door for me, I love that. Little things, not material things, (those help) Be Bestfriends, never hold anything back, talk about everything.
            Enjoy your wedding day, it goes by like a flash. Don't sweat the little stuff, which after your bout with cancer, I'm sure you learned that already. Best of Luck for a lifetime of happiness.
            Krista
            Brother Diag. 10/05 Non-Sem.
            Right I/O 11/05
            Surv
            4XBEP 8/06
            RPLND 12/06
            2X VIP 1/22/07
            Only completed 1 Rd.

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            • #7
              It's the little things in a marriage that are huge.
              Son Jason diagnosed 4/30/04, stage III. Right I/O 4/30/04. Graduated College 5/13/04. 4XEP 6/7/04 - 8/13/04. Full open RPLND 10/13/04. All Clear since.

              Treated by Dr. Rakowski of Midland Park, NJ. Visited Sloan Kettering for protocol advice. RPLND done at Sloan Kettering.

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              • #8
                some time matters always have to what kind of mood she is in some times

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                • #9
                  differences

                  Appreciate that her differences bring an addition to your life that you wouldn't have alone. That your time away, both mentally and physically will bring new information that you can share when you are back together. May the love grow and grow! Russell's Mom, Sharon
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                  • #10
                    Congratulations!!!!


                    Remember, when they say a marriage should be 50:50, that's only partly true. As a whole, it averages out that way, but day to day it can be 60:40, or even 90:10. So be willing to give her more support when she needs it, but also be willing to let her help you when you're down. This seem to be tough for a lot of men, myself included.

                    The thing that irritates my wife the most is when I'm sick or in pain or anxious and depressed and I don't tell her.

                    Best wishes for many happy years together.
                    Fish
                    TC1
                    Right I/O 4/22/1988
                    RPLND 6/20/1988
                    TC2
                    Left I/O 9/17/2003
                    Surveillance

                    Tho' much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days moved earth and heaven; that which we are, we are; one equal temper of heroic hearts, made weak by time and fate, but strong in will; to strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.

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                    • #11
                      she is the same way when i'm hurting and all she gets mad when i dont tell her or talk to her about it

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                      • #12
                        I will give you the advice my Daddy gave to my husband on our wedding day....the secret to a happy marriage...

                        NO MATTER what your wife says, always say to her, "I am sorry honey, I will try and do better."

                        Works every time

                        Margaret
                        Co-survivor with husband Boyce, Diagnosed 7-11-06, orchiectomy right testicle on 7-12-06- Stage 3A: Mixed germ cell tumor with inguinal seminomatous and kartotypic carcinoma. One tumor over 10 cm, second tumor 4 cm, Chemo 4xBEP: Bi-lateral RPLND Dec 2006, nerve sparing but left sterile.
                        Current DVT
                        Current testosterone replacement therapy, Testim.

                        "You must abandon the life you planned, to live the life that was meant for you" ~wisdom I have learned from my family on this forum

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                        • #13
                          thanks every one i'm going to have to wright every thing now for sure if any one wants to e-mail me more hints on getting married my e-mail is [email protected]
                          Last edited by sylvyrwulf; 05-17-07, 06:29 PM.

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                          • #14
                            Well speaking from my 3 weeks now ......... Just remember that she is always right and you can be right if she says you are right
                            Weddings are so much fun you will love it!!!!!!
                            Good Luck
                            Brian
                            5-1-2006 Right IO - Stage 1 Nonseminoma Embryonal and Yolk sac - Surveillance Baby on the way Born 7-20-07

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                            • #15
                              yea i know i learn that the hard way if you know that your right and if she knows that your she will always says that your wrong

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