getting married

[sylvyrwulf]

hey every one me and my g/f is getting married at the end of may is there and thing i need to know any hints yall can give me

[dadmo]

Learn to say "yes dear" like you mean it.

[Pete]

learn to say "I'm sorry" even when you aren't


really though......just don't take the relationship for granted, random acts of kindness,(flowers at work for no reason, etc), random compliments and lots of good sexytime !

[Fed]

[...] random acts of kindness (flowers at work for no reason, etc), random compliments and lots of good sexytime !

So true... the random acts of kindness are huge.

Also, if she gets pissed off at something you do, don't let it fester. Fix it. She'll appreciate you being proactive.

[sylvyrwulf]

i might have to wright all this down

[Savin16]

OK time for a girl to step in, actually all the above is true. When in May? It will be 8 years for my hubby and me, May 27th.
What I still love about my husband is that after all this time, and 4 kids later, which it makes it a little more difficult, but just a "I love you" or he still opens the car door for me, I love that. Little things, not material things, (those help) Be Bestfriends, never hold anything back, talk about everything.
Enjoy your wedding day, it goes by like a flash. Don't sweat the little stuff, which after your bout with cancer, I'm sure you learned that already. Best of Luck for a lifetime of happiness.

[dadmo]

It's the little things in a marriage that are huge.

[sylvyrwulf]

some time matters always have to what kind of mood she is in some times

[Russell's Mom]

differences

Appreciate that her differences bring an addition to your life that you wouldn't have alone. That your time away, both mentally and physically will bring new information that you can share when you are back together. May the love grow and grow! Russell's Mom, Sharon

[Fish]

Congratulations!!!!


Remember, when they say a marriage should be 50:50, that's only partly true. As a whole, it averages out that way, but day to day it can be 60:40, or even 90:10. So be willing to give her more support when she needs it, but also be willing to let her help you when you're down. This seem to be tough for a lot of men, myself included.

The thing that irritates my wife the most is when I'm sick or in pain or anxious and depressed and I don't tell her.

Best wishes for many happy years together.

[sylvyrwulf]

she is the same way when i'm hurting and all she gets mad when i dont tell her or talk to her about it

[Margaret]

I will give you the advice my Daddy gave to my husband on our wedding day....the secret to a happy marriage...

NO MATTER what your wife says, always say to her, "I am sorry honey, I will try and do better."

Works every time

Margaret

[sylvyrwulf]

thanks every one i'm going to have to wright every thing now for sure if any one wants to e-mail me more hints on getting married my e-mail is [email protected]

[IowaBrian]

Well speaking from my 3 weeks now ......... Just remember that she is always right and you can be right if she says you are right
Weddings are so much fun you will love it!!!!!!
Good Luck
Brian

[sylvyrwulf]

yea i know i learn that the hard way if you know that your right and if she knows that your she will always says that your wrong