Hello, I was diagnosed with TC at the end of last April (05) at 26 years old. I believe I caught it early as I was pretty lucky in that my testicle began hemoraging (sp?), thus growing to the size of an orange. It was pretty ridiculous. I knew something was wrong down there and noticed it for about a month or so. It actually took my girlfriend to get my butt into the doctor (thank god!). I hadn't seen her in over a month and well.. you know, she noticed something had changed. She didn't think cancer AT ALL, but she just said she would be very upset if I didn't get it checked immediately. It crossed my mind as a possibility but I didn't give it much thought. Obviously I was wrong. I had the orch in April and have decided to do "surveillance" at Indiana University instead of doing the RPLND. Thus far, my blood counts remain low and scans fine, so my decision has paid off. I'm beginning to feel it's gone.
Sorry for the long story but I've got two questions that I'd appreciate if anybody could help.
1. What percent of guys get a prosthetic testicle? My girlfriend really doesn't care at all (at least that's what she says!). I really don't care that much either. The day before my surgery I thought I would want a prosthetic one for sure -- but afterwards, my desire for that really waned. I just wanted to know if most people did that or not. I think if I was single, I'd be more inclined to think about it as it seems like it would be a bit weird for a girl to just "discover" this. Or do you tell them?
2. In April it will be 12 months for me. Obviously that's a big date in my case. I'm really getting to the point where I "feel" it's gone. However, have any of you or do you know anyone that has had it come back after 8 months of "clean" suveillance tests.
Well, thanks in advance for any feedback. And if you any of you have a loved one about to go through it OR if you are going through it -- just keep a positive attitude. In many ways and in a weird way, this almost seems like a positive experience for me. The day I found out about it -- yeah, it was a bit shocking. I had the surgery the very next morning. Within ONE WEEK I was at a concert of my favorite band!! Of course, I took it easy but it was a great feeling to be out and about so quickly. Like they say, "attitude is everything".
Sorry for the long story but I've got two questions that I'd appreciate if anybody could help.
1. What percent of guys get a prosthetic testicle? My girlfriend really doesn't care at all (at least that's what she says!). I really don't care that much either. The day before my surgery I thought I would want a prosthetic one for sure -- but afterwards, my desire for that really waned. I just wanted to know if most people did that or not. I think if I was single, I'd be more inclined to think about it as it seems like it would be a bit weird for a girl to just "discover" this. Or do you tell them?
2. In April it will be 12 months for me. Obviously that's a big date in my case. I'm really getting to the point where I "feel" it's gone. However, have any of you or do you know anyone that has had it come back after 8 months of "clean" suveillance tests.
Well, thanks in advance for any feedback. And if you any of you have a loved one about to go through it OR if you are going through it -- just keep a positive attitude. In many ways and in a weird way, this almost seems like a positive experience for me. The day I found out about it -- yeah, it was a bit shocking. I had the surgery the very next morning. Within ONE WEEK I was at a concert of my favorite band!! Of course, I took it easy but it was a great feeling to be out and about so quickly. Like they say, "attitude is everything".
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