Hi All
Apologies for the poorly worded header, I couldn't think of a better way to put it..
A friend of my wife's brother in law may have had TC or may not, it seems to be a very grey area where my wife's friend is concerned, when I was first diagnosed she said I could speak to her brother in law as he went through the experience of having a testicle removed due to having a lump. However it turns out that the lump was benign. I didn't speak to him at the time because I didn't really want to speak to someone who had defied the odds - as you can imagine it was the cancer that bothered me more rather than the removal so in a weird way speaking to someone who hadn't had cancer wasn't really where I needed to be coming from at that stage.. I hope you guys can understand what I'm getting at, if anyone can you can..
Anyway, then apparently it turned out that I had been given the wrong info and the guy had had a tumor and was under surveilance, i don't mean that they later found out it was malignant, rather that it was all the time and my wifes friend had been confused with the info she was giving us..
Anyway the guy in question has since had 2 children and apparently according to this same friend of my wifes his doctor told him to leave 24hrs between each attempt to conceive as because he only has one testicle it takes twice as much time to recreate enough sperm.
This just didn't ring true with me and it has opened up a whole tin of worms (or sperm
) As far as I know opinions vary with regards to the best way to conceive - i.e. try every night or leave it a day or so but I have never heard of someone with a single testicle being advised to approach conceiving in a different way that someone with 2..
Sorry to ramble, I hope you can grasp what I am trying to get at. You guys are the only people I feel comfortable talking to about this.
Any opinions / links etc would be gratefully received..
Cheers
Andy

Apologies for the poorly worded header, I couldn't think of a better way to put it..
A friend of my wife's brother in law may have had TC or may not, it seems to be a very grey area where my wife's friend is concerned, when I was first diagnosed she said I could speak to her brother in law as he went through the experience of having a testicle removed due to having a lump. However it turns out that the lump was benign. I didn't speak to him at the time because I didn't really want to speak to someone who had defied the odds - as you can imagine it was the cancer that bothered me more rather than the removal so in a weird way speaking to someone who hadn't had cancer wasn't really where I needed to be coming from at that stage.. I hope you guys can understand what I'm getting at, if anyone can you can..
Anyway, then apparently it turned out that I had been given the wrong info and the guy had had a tumor and was under surveilance, i don't mean that they later found out it was malignant, rather that it was all the time and my wifes friend had been confused with the info she was giving us..
Anyway the guy in question has since had 2 children and apparently according to this same friend of my wifes his doctor told him to leave 24hrs between each attempt to conceive as because he only has one testicle it takes twice as much time to recreate enough sperm.
This just didn't ring true with me and it has opened up a whole tin of worms (or sperm

Sorry to ramble, I hope you can grasp what I am trying to get at. You guys are the only people I feel comfortable talking to about this.
Any opinions / links etc would be gratefully received..
Cheers
Andy
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