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Carpla, thanks for the reply-I am sorry you are in that situation also. I know others have written to me about Justin not banking sperm-but with my family we have learned there can't be regrets-in life you make decisions based on the info you have-and alot of prayer and then you move on. Like when my dad died in 96 of melanoma-or my 5 yr old nephew was hit by a train-we can look back and say "shoulda, woulda, coulda, and "if only..." but that will consume you and destroy your life so we just move forward, one day at a time...We felt such a peace with the surgeon in Portland and felt if there was any chance for the nerve sparing it would be him but there was no way because of where Justin's tumor was and the size of it so we move on.....and we know God has a plan in spite of the "unfairness" of it all... God Bless -Lanette
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