Maybe this wont be an issue. but i'm a little confused by advice. here's the story full story.maybe you can help clear things up...
I'm post chemo, all going well, left gone, secondary tumour zapped, all looking on track. BEP therapy in the UK. wasn't nice , but now back to almost normal.(on a side track, i still get swollen hands and feet every now and then, mostly in the morning. anyone else? my onco doesn't know why).
BEP ended and of july 04 , so about 4 months since.
Was hoping to try and have a child maybe next year or later. have banked sperm, and my partner is very fertile with 2 of her own.
I had a low sperm count before the op, which is often the case i've heard.
We've been having protected sex since treatment, which is the norm for us.but recently had a couple of accidents with split condoms.
My partner has since been convinced,(womens intuition), that she's pregnant. a few days too early to test. she has had some indications of of this, sickness, swollen breasts, etc.
I know it's a little early to tell, but if i have hit the jackpot first time, and defied all the odds. (i'm not so sure , but my partner is convinced i have,and i defer to her experience!)
Will all be well with the baby so soon after chemo? i rang my ward, and they seemed to think it would be ok, but i'm not so sure.
I read the unprotected sex thread but need some more clues. so i thought i'd start a new one as that one seems a little old.
can anyone help?
thanks
I'm post chemo, all going well, left gone, secondary tumour zapped, all looking on track. BEP therapy in the UK. wasn't nice , but now back to almost normal.(on a side track, i still get swollen hands and feet every now and then, mostly in the morning. anyone else? my onco doesn't know why).
BEP ended and of july 04 , so about 4 months since.
Was hoping to try and have a child maybe next year or later. have banked sperm, and my partner is very fertile with 2 of her own.
I had a low sperm count before the op, which is often the case i've heard.
We've been having protected sex since treatment, which is the norm for us.but recently had a couple of accidents with split condoms.
My partner has since been convinced,(womens intuition), that she's pregnant. a few days too early to test. she has had some indications of of this, sickness, swollen breasts, etc.
I know it's a little early to tell, but if i have hit the jackpot first time, and defied all the odds. (i'm not so sure , but my partner is convinced i have,and i defer to her experience!)
Will all be well with the baby so soon after chemo? i rang my ward, and they seemed to think it would be ok, but i'm not so sure.
I read the unprotected sex thread but need some more clues. so i thought i'd start a new one as that one seems a little old.
can anyone help?
thanks
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